Travis & Jeni Lansing

Wednesday, November 11, 2026

30 mile ride on the Santos trail with Wayne and Mel.

Gary and Liz took the wall art you liked and had hanging on our shed.
It looks nice, glad they can enjoy it like you did.

Grief turns us into keepers of ordinary things.

Pieces of them left behind.

What we keep isn't denial.

It's live refusing to quit.

Love refusing to file the paperwork.

And maybe that's what every grieving person quietly understands:

You are not holding on to things. You are holding on to them.

You physically died that day.

I died too, just only on the inside.

Death took you, grief took me.

I'll never be who I was before that day.

Kayaking the Silver River

You know I love perfectly cooked grilled cheese.

The All American, grilled cheese with tomato basil soup.

A 7 mile bike ride from the hotel north on A1A.

This is not the end of our story.

The distance between here and there is only time.

And time always passes